I am of the opinion that you need to find out if your wife is having an affair. You need to know if it is physical. You need to get yourself tested for VD if she is having sex with someone else. And you need to project yourself if you are going to be sexual with her. Yuck. Once you find out, then I think it is conterproductive to keep snooping. You really need to know what you are up against.
I'm a man . . . But I can change . . . If I have to . . . I guess . . .
