Let her stew awhile and figure it out on her own...
She chose this path and it is up to her to find her way out of it...
No need for you to pay the rent at "friends" house...
If she has to pay rent, then she needs a more stable job...
Spousal support I see if you are D however you are not...She chose to bail so she needs to think things through and see how she is going to pay her way without using you as a fallback...
I say this because I did the same thing...
I make more then hubby and just yesterday he texted needing money and I am sorry but not gonna happen...
I did what Puppy told me to do and got a new account in my name only...
Why should I pay for him to bang another woman?
Why should I pay for his new life?
Don't have enough money well then either pull your head out of your ass or get another job...
Not my problem (unless I allow it to be)...
Remember this...
"There is only one way to happiness, and that is to cease worrying about things which are beyond the power of our will."
Epictetus
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
