I don't think your wanting to set that boundary is unreasonable. You can make your point politely and firmly.
I like the approach of letting her know she should let you know when she's coming over - it's YOUR house. And, add the example you said - what if YOU (W) were coming out of the bathroom and saw Gardener standing in your kitchen unannounced?
So you vote a and b? Good idea.
Originally Posted By: givingitmyall
She should understand, and she may wonder why you are wanting to know when she's coming over - does Gardener have someone over there with him of the female persuasion? Hmmmm.
Just my DIL! Thanks, gima. I would appreciate your thoughts on my ramblings of yesterday if'n ya get a chance, buddy.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
