Phew! Cat. Think I`ll brace myself for a storm then! Thanks so much for sharing. I was going to bail out tomorrow, just to avoid him but now I think it best that I don`t do that either. Just be me, strong in my space, doing what I`d planned to do.
Glad I`ve some xanax on standby for if the going gets tough.
I never contact MIL by the way, before or now. She has started ringing since she heard from H about his marital woes. I`ve said as little as possible and switched subjects and am no longer in contact with any of H`s family over this-though of course, am as friendly as ever with them. Miss them,actually as I don`t get to see them as often now. But that`s ok too.