And, then again, how does setting that boundary square with my post of yesterday, i.e., letting my confused, scared friend know she can be safe. Here. With me. Again? Just call first before coming over? Am I setting a boundary or adding to the distance and discomfort?

Over over thinking!

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac