Yes, it's reality for XH. Car Insurance, Registrations, Bill Paying, Etc... It's his burden now. Is this kind of stuff contributing to XH feeling of depression? He is capable of taking care of his own business, I assume. It is not fun. It is now a consequence that makes the D even more real. I wonder if he is sulking and feeling real bad about himself right now and his choices? I wonder if the regrets are starting?
I was hoping to read more about light-hearted visits between the two of you. This is probably only temporary. For you I hope so....
I hope this weekend brings you some good contact with him, if it is what you would like to see.
I have accepted a second job and I start that next Wednesday. I am excited. I have been looking for something for a long while now. It is doing the same kind of work I already do. There will be a learning curve since most companies operate a little differently. I am ready for a new challenge. Time will become precious once again.
It's pouring rain here today, I hope it clears, we have had enough already. ENOUGH!!!! This is the summer that isn't a summer!!!! I live w/i 17 miles of the coast of Maine and we have had rain, rain, rain. Our temps have maintained at 65-70 degrees nearly everyday. Just plain aggravating. I have hardly broke out the summer clothes.
I hope you have an enjoyable weekend.....make some time just for you MsM!!!!!
Take care my friend,
Sanderika
ME48/H48MLC T 33y M 28y S16 OW 8/7/05 Bomb 8/16/05 Sep 9/05 H f'd D 10/3/08 D pp'd 1/20/09,7/24/09,12/4/09 D dismissed 2/5/10 H served me D papers again 9/4/10 D dismissed 9/26/11