I think you already know what my feelings are on the subject. It easy for anyone to say "this is what you need to do"... saying it is a lot easier than doing it, and when emotions are involved its even harder. I know I couldn't shut it off like that. But that is me.
I don't think she will ever see the light , not anytime soon anyway. Its so fustrating that ultimately she has led the M to its demise, yet she acts like what she has done is non-existent.
Don't ever stop sticking up for your kids, someone has to look out for their best interest, and it woun't be her, all she cares about is herself.
(((((hugs))))
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.