So, this week (and I think my late night post last night indicates this) I have really worked on detaching, and I can feel a difference. Not callously, but I just don't care what W does/does not do or what she says/feels. I'm just letting her deal with HER issues, while I'm dealing with mine. I am still being courteous and receptive to her, but I do not DEPEND on her.
Wow GIMA, that is good to hear for you, I am struggling today with myself on this. I know I don't depend on my W, and at times I too have that 'do I still love her?' moments. Oddly, those catch me by surprise at times.
Hope you have a great day, I am feeling needy today over things that happened this AM, and need to rework my focus so I am not in that funk..
M: 41 STBXW: 41 D: 9 Bomb: 4/26/09
On board the D train now..
"Suffering is when we try to change what we cannot."
