My hearts desire is still my husband, so I would like us to at least attempt a shot at reconcilliation. A chance is all I want. Things move slower than I would like but we are making slow and steady progress. At least he is speaking to me now! lol! He didn't really for a long time as he felt too much shame and guilt. I am thinking about how to move on from friendship at the moment.....
My aim is for him to want, and make room in his life, for spending time with me.
We definitely have a lot in common (except that you're a young chick and I'm an old one!!). You very eloquently summed up your thoughts here. Like you, I'm not really sure how you move from friendship. H is moving house soon and he has indicated that I will be welcome to his new house. I hope he will just invite me. He thinks moving is part of his 'chance to start afresh'. He has a new job in the pipeworks and now a new house. Does starting afresh mean goodbye to OW?
