What do you think I should read in front of my W that would appeal to her?
There is nothing that will appeal to her. But it adds fuel to the fire when she sees you reading any material on MR or women....anything like that p*sses her off.
The more I think about the trip in August, the more I think you should NOT go b/c I think she will run to stand by OM's side instead of yours. I would hate for your kids to be anywhere around the two of you with that drama going on. I think if she gets to see with her own eyes just how sorry this OM is, then that would be nuch better than you helping him to look like the victum.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
