He’s completely out on his own and hardly ever contacts me unless it’s about the kids. Looking at the 5 ll it would seem that his is quality time which is almost impossible to pull off when we don’t have much to do with each other. Basically I’ve been following the LRT and think it’s probably the only way to go. It’s killing me though, I’m quite nosy by nature! Also I do think it suits him too, he can get on and do what he wants without thinking about me. He doesn’t tell the kids much about what he’s doing either. He’s having an A with my former friend who lives within spitting distance of my house – ouch!
A couple of months ago one of the kids moved into his place for a while and I suggested that whilst he was there my H come and do the jobs round the house that he promised to do. I emailed this suggestion and didn’t even get a reply which I thought was rude. I discussed this with the Coach and she supported that. I haven’t spoken to the Coach since though there’s nothing new to report but when there is I’ll contact her again – talking to her was helpful though.
Today I’m feeling a bit stroppy and wondering why on earth would I want the little sh*t back anyway – does anyone else ever feel like that?
