K, so I was thinking, about 6 years ago H was pestering me pretty regularly about my weight. I had gained weight since we first got together. I worked at a pool with a gym as a lifeguard, so I did get a lot of exercise, but that doesnt matter... I remember one night when it came to a head, he had been at it again and I stormed out of the room, came back in and said to him, maybe yelled a little, that "I will never be good enough for you, will I?"

I wonder if it had to do with him keeping quiet when something bothered him, sort of like the boiled frog idea. Do you think that I should tell him that I realized this, and apologize for it? I dont think that right now is an appropriate time to bring it up, but should it be something that I keep in mind?

I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...