It's your turn to say something. I think you should say, "I will consider mediation after we go to Retrouvaille with open minds and willing to try to understand each other." Note: I did not say, fix the marriage, reconcile, or any other phrase indicating a predetermined outcome for the weekend. I just said "open minds and willing to try to understand each other". Because, you both deserve that after 10 years and two children. And with a future relationship of some sort, that won't end in the foreseeable future.
This. Yes.
(and Sara, giggle. At least my handle is *somewhat* ambiguous.)
"Show me a completely smooth operation and I'll show you someone who's covering mistakes. Real boats rock." -- Frank Herbert
