totally messed things up!!

[K4D]

Are you prepared to be left alone? Are you going to follow through with that if she comes to you and wants you to take care of something for her? Or are you going to cave and do it and then she will know you don't really stand on what you said and she will have even less respect for you.

I personally think it is better to show her than to say that. But that is just my opinion. She will figure it out by you not answering your phone right away and by you not calling her back right away and by you not being able to take care of whatever she wants you to do for her at her will. Actions are better than words.

You can go either route. But I think it would be better to start with the actions which also does provide mystery and plants thoughts about you more in her head. She starts to wonder what you are up to and WHY all of a sudden you aren't quite there for her. Curiosity will start drawing her back versus being told to get lost.

Did you read DB or DR?

I see that Puppy has already talked to you earlier in your thread.