New to this Community seeking advice

[JR09]

Well, I don't know what to make of this...Just journaling...I called my WAW for our weekly conversation. I asked how the boys were. She had her sweet voice. Just her regular self, as if she never left. Then all of a sudden she asks" so when are you going to sign the divorce papers?" I actually didn't quite understand because I never saw a place where I was supposed to sign on the paperwork I received 5 months ago. All I signed was an Acceptance of service memo which I sent back. That's it...

So I tell my W "If you fell strongly about it, then I will do what makes you happy". I asked "is this what you want me to do", she answered "yes". But then she didn't say anything anymore. So I switched the topic and asked about her health, parents. She also inquired about my parents, health, etc...

All along I was very calm, composed, and NEVER EVER raised my voice. As calm as the rising sun. I was actually pretty proud of myself for being calm and composed. A few minutes later, I ended the conversation and said bye.

I keep repeating the saying on the BB to not "believe a word she says..." I keep thinking she was testing me again, wanting to see how I would react to such a statement. I went to the neighbors to process my conversation. They were very nice. But they tried to convince me to lay it all out to my W and tell her how I feel, sign whatever paper, etc, etc.

I keep thinking that it's not the DB way of doing things, but didn't tell that to my good neighbors. I still believe in my heart that my W was testing me. She really could have pushed the D issue a long time ago anyway, with or without me. It could have been finalized 20 das after it was filed. But now we are nearing 6 months and no action has ever been taken about it.

So I can't help but trying to analyze what my W was saying, but I don't get it. Anyone wants to give me some input or suggestions on how to proceed next?

JR