Orchid

[MsMelancoly]

Hey Orchid1, I've been reading along. Sounds like you have been doing pretty good. Don't know why your H wants a D so quickly. But, like I said before, my XH said the same thing about starting over. Maybe they are searching for the happy dating time. For myself, after D, even tho I love my XH, it would take a lot for me to trust again that he would not just walk away when things got rough. Yep, it would have to be a different R, because I wouldn't want the old R/M back. My stakes are higher now.

I think you made the right choice to go back for your D & face whatever fears you may have.

Stay strong & keep posting your thoughts.