K4D, Thank you for your response.I tried finding your original sitch but couldn't find it but it seems like you are going thru what I'm going thru also.Its incredible how everyones sitchs are so similiar.Anyway I know nothing is over till its over.As for doing stuff I try as hard as possible to keep busy.I'm in the best shape of my life.Not knowing the om is difficult to find what she finds attractive in him.My guess though is she is feeling the same as she did with me in the beginning.You know that excited,first time feeling.I'm not going to tell the kids I tried yet.In my post above I mentioned she would do sep agreement for 1 year.Problem is I know shes only doing this to make me happy.I know I cant control what she does.So you are saying act happy around her?I generally do.A 180 probably wont work in my place.I figured a shock treatment of LRT would be better.I figured by me telling her don't talk to me anymore might open her eyes a little bit.
