Divorce not busted 2

[K4D]

Then if you made the changes requested, it would seem to me that she wasn't working on things on her end. And I think if I go back and read her letter again it kind of states that.

Most M's have problems. Show me a perfect M with zero problems and I will show you lies and deceit. No person is perfect so how can any M be perfect? Problems are not usually one sided. You didn't fail her. She is failing herself, you, and your kids. If you made the changes that were asked and put the work into being a better H, then the issue is not you. The issue is her. So again, there is no reason for you to be down on yourself. This isn't about you. This is about her thinking the grass is greener on the other side when it is not. She is going through a temporary situation right now.

Did she work on the things the MC asked her to work on? Did she TRULY work on them? Did you see it with your own eyes? Or was it made out to be only about you?

I believe you said that her C was telling her that this is best for her if I remember correctly? I wonder if she would be open to a solution based C instead. It might be worth suggesting. There is a huge difference in those types versus the type you pay to help you and they further tear your M apart.

I am kind of tired tonight so I don't know if what I am saying completely makes sense. Just trying to help. Pray on it all.

Kevin