Champagne check (if I can afford it). He wasn't like this until 2007. I think when he started a serious EA, and then the PA. He's been horrible now for about 2.5 years. He was pretty much normal before that though.
I emailed the L tonight so I expect I might get a response tomorrow, but more likely Mon. or Tuesday or something. I'll post and share when I find out. I hope I am not going to have to become a petty person over this stuff but if the L says I need to so I don't lose custody I will. Karen