back after 10 weeks of recovery and need some help

[Doingitright]

W just reminded me of what she said two days ago...there is no happiness in our future. She was acting like she couldn't sleep so that was why she was sleeping in the spare bedroom. She is pissed off that I still went to our mc without her. She said that she doesn't feel comfortable because she doesn't know what I talked to him about. That is not what type of mc it is.

She is completely says the argument we had was big. When she said there was no happiness in our future I asked what are going to do? What does she want to do? I asked if were we going to see a lawyer.

I then came home and had a calmn discussion with her. She said I acted as if the argument didn't happen. She blowing everything so out of proportion. Telling my kids to not fight or to stop wrestling became me being rotten to them. She said they need to have fun and "we are so strict". But she then admitted she was just as guilty as I was. But that is just forgotten.

She now says she felt uncomfortable during the agument and that is why she left. I was typing into my phone to get to my facebook acct as that was her root of all evil.

W's complaints are different and yet similar to the originals. She feels guilty going away on weekends with friends or just going out because I don't go out and crave that time away from the family. I guess I am lost on what to do next.

I have changed tremendously. Lost 50lbs. Work out. Run which we started doing together during the past 5 weeks. I am in a happy place. Although the job and finances suck we were in a much better place.