Also, please don't let her see you reading any more books about M or women. It simply works in giving her a more intense turned-off feeling toward you. Your goal is to cause her to feel more attracted to you.......not repulsed, and I am getting that picture of her--in this latest post you sent. Bet you didn't realize that "one" word....(disgust).....would lead to this, did ya?
Sandi,
In the course of our sitch i've learned to accept the fact that in my W's eyes I can't do anything right so I don't openly try. I go to the gym every day so I'm looking real good physically. Bought new clothes that look and fit great. Keeping well groomed, clean and smelling good every day. Laid back, easy going and friendly, just not overly gushing and bubbly. I'm calm, relaxed and under control. There are some things that I do privately- like talk with friends on the phone- that may keep my W guessing from time to time.
I've never actively gone out of my way to share with my W what I'm reading- the other day she made a point to look at what I was reading ("Walk Out Woman"). What do you think I should read in front of my W that would appeal to her?
M: 41 W: 39 S: 11 S: 10 D: 4 1st contact w/OM: 1/19/09 EA began: 2/14/09 EA discovered: 3/1/09 I file for D 8/25/09 to protect myself _______________________________
