What is toxic hope defined as? Just the sound of it sounds like how I fell some times.
Spybunny? What kind of abuse? My H is not physically abusive like I would think phsycal abuser would be but I think he is more emotional, mental, and verbally abusive. I shall have to hop on over to your stich and read yours to see what we have in common.
We have been going to counceling but I still see the same stuff that has been going on lately with my H. I made an appointment to go by myself this next time and I want to talk to the councelor about these same issues. I want to see what he has to say about it too and see if he thinks that my H needs some other type of counceling that he can help with or get my H to go to. I sometimes think that if it comes from some one else that my H respects then maybe it will get through to him better that there is a problem with him.
By the way sg....I have my computer on a password that he has no clue about. I clear my histories all the time and make sure that I have things secreted away on here. I hate to do that but I just feel better about doing it.
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
