WHOOHOO for you girl!!! You have done the right thing and deep down you know it.
Your H's attack on you maybe because before you filed the papers against her he felt like he had control of the situation and that he could come and go and could do whatever he wanted to you, your son, AND with the OW. Now that the tables have turned and you are the one with control, he has suddenly lost all that he thought he had control over.
I hope that all made sence!!!
I know that when I feel like I have lost control of whatever the situation is with my H or my kid's dads, I feel anger right away and want to lash out. It takes all I have not to do it. Your H just plainly lashed out at you.
The pregnancy thing....I would be upset too and I would be nervous too but like some others have said, even if she is there is nothing you can do about it right now. It is another mess that your H has made for himself and HE has to deal with it not YOU!!!
I pray that she isn't, I pray for strength for you, and I pray all stuff gets ironed out for you soon.
Me-31 Him-28 D1-9 D2-6 Married 5-06 Seperated 12-07 He filed 1-08 Reconciled 4-08 D dropped 7-08 Bomb dropped about H's activities outside the marriage 4-21-09 Filed for D 4-28-09 Trying to make a go of it 6-09
