Holy crap. Scifi girl is right. She just described my W and I perfectly. That is the same exact set of circumstances, the only differenc is that I didn't know how bad it was financially because she did the bills and never communicated to me just how bad it was. So I didn't look for another job. Then we went bankrupt. After I found out, I did look for a job though and found one. But it was too late for her. I had a hand in this. OM didn't even come into the picture until she realized how unhappy she was. I share the burden of this mess. This he'll I am in is kind of like penance.
Me-40 W-41 Together-10 M-8 S-6 S-4 Bomb 5/08 Bomb 10/08 Thought things were better, was wrong. Still living together Wife doesn't think she will ever love me again.
