I felt as though Brave's W was really cake eating. She doesn't want the kids at her place (which, BTW, she seems to be acting weird about) and she pops in & out at the house without any annoucements or invitations and expects Brave to keep the kids and the home fires burning! IMHO, she was disrepecting him. Everything was "her way" and he was laying back and allowing her to call the shots......which were mostly about D6 b/c she was acting as if she didn't have two other children. So, I was one of the main ones (or maybe the only one) who talked to Brave about how he needed to take some control in this stitch and that they needed to have a respected visitation schedule in place. That is nothing but fair on each side. Have computer problmes and have to continue my post on next reply.

Last edited by sandi2; 07/24/09 01:29 AM.
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