Been catching up on your sitch. Tooka few days off from forum as you know from my note to Givingitmyall this morning.
Serenity's got your number - and your back. You better listen!
NO texting. Drop the rope. Make her curious about this guy she thought she knew. I particularly liked the Serenity's (?) comment about leaving her to flail away in her happy new world of hers! Be patient. Patience is the hardest part, for me. When I lack it, I make it a point to recall whatever recent "small changes" in her behavior I've seen. Gives me patience to stay the course.
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
