Well, to be honest the legal system is terribly frustrating as well. The prolong the case forever which adds to the stress. OW in my case had to keep going to court every couple months and the good thing is that they kept renewing my restraining order. But my case ended on being settled by putting her on probation and then they closed the case. I actually did kinda drop the case once it became a nucense for me - I was taking several days off for work for it to go to trial and it never would. The police officer even came several times to testify and the case kept being put off. Then my district attorney that I already had a rapport with changed and I was traveling for work and it would interfere and after a year adn half I was sick and tired of it. And I just gave in and told the new DA to just settled. I couldn't be bothered anymore, but I got my RO in place.
So I'm guessing in your case, if she didn't turn herself in, they will put the warrent out and make an arrest or a lazy detective may drop it but be on his case so that doesn't happen. After that she will deal with the legal system and to be honest the system may consider it a petty crime considering all that they deal with and may just issue a warning with the restraining order. But I can tell you she will be running to court like crazy. That's all I know for now.
But again, do what you have to do to protect your and your peace. Actions speak louder than words!! Your H and her will now understand that you mean the harrassment must end.
Yea I gotta write an update on my sitch. Will do later on.
