Doodles, just caught up on your thread. All I have to say is: GO DOODLES GO DOODLES GO!!!!! You are so doing the right thing and I am proud of you. Of course, I can relate, when my H's crazy OW attacked me, I processed the case and H was pissed off. He wanted me to stop but I didn't. when the district attorney needed his testimony and he didn't want to, I had them subpoena him. Again he was pissed - but you know what - I WAS RIGHT and I would do it again. You will see very soon how so right you are. Girl, be the strong one here. Your H is weak right now and whacked out - why should you be. I know it feels hard right now and it hurts. It was hurting when she was harassassing you too. It's one thing that she has your H, why rub it in. Show her who's boss her. I'm proud of you!!!!