None of this is meant to bring you down further today. I think we all just want you to realize there may be more than meets the eyes for the one that is hurting based on the letter and things you said. It is just all to familiar to the rest of us. It doesn't necessarily mean it is true. But there is a real possibility it could be.
Keep your faith in God and be a great dad for your kids. We are here for any and all support you need.
Kevin
Absolutely K. It's meant to help. It's also to make Orich aware - because I felt that letter was taking advantage of him. I felt she was playing nice-nice. I also think she may act quickly on the mediator and I don't want him to make any mistakes here because it could really hurt him that's all. Otherwise, it's all compassion for another hurting brother.
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She also told me that she needed to work on herself and that the kids would be happier having a mom that is happy and that God would not want her to be in a M that she is completely miserable in. Oh, and after the A occured, she told me that it was helping her to heal. Whatever. The point is, it is all script. You might want to examine that friendship a little more. And for the texting... That is a HUGE red flag. My W was texting and IMing also to "her friend".
This was also word for word in my sitch. Incredible.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
