Ya. Come to think of it, my W's friend was the one helping her through it also. Ya he helped alright. He helped his way right into bed with her. But she had told me the same thing that he was helping her.
Kevin
Yup - My W had 2 EAs with the OM and guess where she is now? Same script, same old, same old...and the kids are with me because I wouldn't leave the house.
Orich - I know your getting hit with a lot. But DO NOT LEAVE THAT HOUSE IF YOU WANT JOINT CUSTODY. You are in CT, I'm in NY so it may be different, but if you leave, you will never get back in, and you will be considered abandoning them. Even if you have a good lawyer, your W can make a case to not upset the applecart, that the kids are comfortable with her.
Don't buy her BS. This was the best piece of advice I received. This is her mess. If she wants out of the M, then she should leave the marital home. Don't give a rat's behind about how long anyone has been on the street. That's BS. Tell her that due to her decision, the family is changing, if the family can change so can the street and it's homeowners. Protect yourself bro!
Strength and Honor.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
