Orich, tell your wife that Retrouvaille is DESIGNED for people who are "too far gone". In fact some attendees ARE ALREADY DIVORCED. And that it is DESIGNED to build the communication skills your wife says you and she lack. Blowing it off for the reasons she gave would be a mistake. In fact, you guys are exactly the type of couple they seek to reach.

Regarding the friend who "is helping her through all of this", that is a huge red flag in my mind. My wife's OM also was "helping her through all of this".


WAW Using God
Me-43
W-40
M-14
S-11
S-9
D-7
EABomb 5/09
Separated 12/09