I don't want her to say these things. I don't want her to give him ultimatums on my behalf. I also do not want to mention anything to her if she decides to tell him anything I say. I know she's only trying to help, but...
Then ask her to stop.....Let her know she is hurting things rather than helping things.....
These MLC'ers are NOT rational right now....
If she cannot respect your wishes, then stop speaking to her....
You need people who support your decision to stand, not jeopordize that....
