Still smoldering......

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I agree. What you have all said, makes perfect sense. I think the crib makes he anxious. But, I have to say, she's pretty good about going to bed in there. It's the middle of the night when we have an issue. And, she screams bloody murder. So, I put her in bed with me last night and we BOTH slept like a baby.

I'm worried about her. The crying in her sleep and whimpering concerns me the most. I have a call into the doctor.

So, MIL calls me today. Asks how things are going. I say "fine" didn't even mention the blow up with H. Until....she did. Aparently, H called her and told her she can't talk to me anymore. She basically hung up on him and told him to grow up and learn to deal with me in a civil manner. H also told BIL he couldn't talk to me or they would kick him out. He laughed and said "go ahead, that's $600 less you'll have a month and I have other places I can stay". So, I think H is losing it. Basically, H told MIL that she had to choose between K and her brother (their son). I know this wreaks of OW. I can only suspect that she resents the fact that he has another child. Another reason I am unhappy about her going to her dad's house.

So, I have kept myself as removed from his as much as possible. I have no plans to talk to him unless it's an emergency. MIL asked H how K was (because she was sick), he told her that he didn't know. MIL asked him if he even checks up on her between visits...his response: She can't talk, yet. What's the point of asking her?" Huh????? Um, how about asking ME how K is? I can talk? He's a moron. Sorry