The truth is that most people don't walk out of a M unless there is someone else there. I'm not saying this is always the case. But the majority of cases I have seen is exactly that. Prior to that, they didn't have any reason to want out. I refused to believe for the longest time that my W had someone else in her life even though everyone else saw it but me. I later found out they were right. I just did not want to believe she would do something like that and I just thought none of them knew what they were talking about. It is all cookie cutter for the most part.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...