As to "win/loss" on the Relative Lawyer -- from my POV perhaps you might consider abandoning this "he wins" "I win" "I lose" frame. For one, it really seems to exacerbate your emotional turmoil. For another, it ain't over until it's over. For a third, it keeps you on the defensive.
Second this. I've noticed this "he wins/I lose" thing in your posts for awhile, and I don't think it's helping you one little bit. So, what Smiley said.
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