There is no OM other than an old friend who is helping her through this. She sees him once a week for an employment thing. She texts him a lot, but I think he just tells her what she wants to hear. Is there an EA? I don't know. I tend to think not because she is so set on being alone. Even when the M was good, she always maintained that she would be fine on her own, she doesn't need a man.
You watch how quickly, now that she has expressed her intentions to you in this letter and gotten her family's support, this "friend" suddenly turns into something much more.