Since the last two weeks, My W has been refusing to allow our D2 to spend time with my away from W's house.
W has filed for D and is trying to get full custody and completely take me to the cleaners. She even had they schedule to serve me at my workplace. All of this has angered me, but at the end of the day I still love her. I didn't realize how much I loved her until I found myself not being able to hold any of this against her.
A couple of days ago, I went to Ws place to visit with D2. Ws father mentioned that W is just reacting out of fear thinking that I will keep D2 and not bring her back. I explained to both of them that I could but didn't want to cause confusion etc. D2 was eager to see me and was crying wanting to leave with me. It was a horrible experience. W's dad mention that his heart's desire would be for us to reconcile and also that he mention marriage counseling to W. He stated that W told him that I wouldn't do it. The next day W sent me a text asking me would I consider marriage counseling. I explained to her that it would have to come from her heart. W sent a text back stating how do you know if it isn't. W has been so deceitful lately.. She could be trying to reconcile to throw out the Adultery complaint etc.
Yesterday, she was laughing and flirting with me as I spent time with D2. It really brought back memories of how we use to be, but she didn't mention counseling. I wasn't going to pursue her either. I went over her house after my Softball game. W made a comment about asking where I came from. She didn't know if I was working out or played a game. I think the GAL is working. I'm not being a doormat anymore and ultimately the respect is coming back.
As the D is looming, I will continue to work on me and make improvements.
"Suffering is painful but makes you a stronger person".
