It probably sounds awful of me, but yes, it is good to know that Karma makes her rounds! Strangely what I want most for a conclusion is just to know that I and our marriage meant something to him. He hasn't evaluated any of this, so doesn't have an answer and may never have one. Just have to deal with that.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory