I would say mention it because even if he decides to not save his mariage it will let him see options and some of the issues he will face because of the betrayal.

Glad to hear that you are doing better. Life always likes to throw us curve balls and heaven knows that I am a lousy batter! LOL Hope you can continue to hit your share!

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory