Ok, the letter. Long. Cold. She doesn't love me. Maybe never really did. If it was true love, it wouldn't have gone. She will be better off alone. Blah blah blah. I am a good guy. I will be fine. She will help me through this (!). I deserve a woman who will truly love me. She is not that woman. Blah blah blah.
Someone kicked me hard in the chest. I can't breathe.
Orich - it's all script. Water off a duck's back. More than half of us could have told you what it was going to say. Take comfort in that. It's not about you. This is her thing.
Let me ask you a question, and forgive me if you have gone through this already - I haven't caught up on your entire thread.
Has she recently lost weight, started paying more attention to her looks, dressing differently, acting differently, checking out guys right in front of you, talking about missing out on stuff, etc...
Is it possible there's OM?? Sorry to bring that up now - but it is such script.
Take comfort - this is something they go through - it's really not about you - they personalize it that way. I know it sux bro! Hang in there. Focus on what you can control.
Strength and Honor.
M 43 W 44 M 17 T 22 S16,12,9 Bomb 2/05/08 I served her 1/06/09 S'd 3/15/09 D'd 12/21/09
"Tough times don't last, tough people do." --My Dad to me years ago, me to my boys now.
