Again, she is giving you script and you are choosing to believe it. You don't have multiple kids with someone you don't love. Quit believing this stuff. This is WAW fantasy syndrome that she is currently living in. Think of her as temporarily insane or having a mid life crisis.

She is not saying anything new that most of us haven't heard said to us. FaithfulH's W said the same thing to him. It wasn't true. But in her mind at that time, she believed it. It is only a current mindset. They go through and rewrite history to justify their current temporary insane feelings. It won't last. She will come back to realize at some point that she was out of her mind.

Are you going to let her keep you down? How can you DB if you do? What is your end goal here? How do you get to that goal? Is it an easy path? No, it isn't. Can you do it? Yes, you can. Do you want to take this challenge? It doesn't seem like you do. Will you take it? Only you can decide that for yourself.

Is your W worth waiting for and taking on this challenge? I believe she is. Do you?

Kevin


Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...