I realize it's last minute notice and you might have work...but WHY are you not going? Do you feel it is between the two of them only?
Why is working at a deli and having roommates so she can afford rent so bad? Lots of people do it. It's part of the college/starting out experience IMHO. Especially if you're like me and didn't have parents who could pay for much. It'll teach her to budget and appreciate what she has - her health and the beauty in each day which is in the little things, not money.
STBXW really needs to learn to ask instead of tell lol.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2