Magnificent

[mishka422]

I'm doing MUCH MUCH better y'all! Thank you so much for not abandoning me when I get in a total funk! Life is much less lonely with all of you around.

I felt so sad for a client of mine today. I talk to this man at least once every two weeks booking his business trips. This last year has been total he!! for him. About 6 months ago his father had a heart attack quickly followed by a broken hip when he tried to get out of bed too soon after bypass surgery, his mother has had 3 major back surgeries in 4 months, his sister had a massive stroke 5 weeks ago that has left her in a semi-vegitative state and institutionalized for the rest of her life at the age of 39, and now his wife call him last week while he was on a business trip and told him she 'wants space and not to contact her'. He was upset about it but thought he could work it out with her after she got her space. Now he has found out that she has been having an affair with someone she works with. How did he find out? He was driving down the street and saw his company car parked in a parking lot (she was driving it) and went over to investigate the car and found her and her lover in the back seat. She promptly filed for D and he says there is no way he's taking her back.

Another M bites the dust. He is going to DivorceCare at his church and I told him it saved my life so he is glad to know that it is helpful and not just a b!tch session. I'm debating on telling him about this site since he seems so adamant about not working things out. After the initial shock wears off maybe he'll change his mind about that. He said she is the absolute love of his life. This was his second M after he had been M'd to his first wife for 16 years. That M ended amicably just because they grew so far apart and neither was happy but there was no betrayal involved.

Do you think I should even tell him or leave it be unless he mentions something about wanting to work it out?