One day at a time doodles. Maybe your goal for tomorrow could be to feel better. To do what it takes to feel better. You could go to the store and pick up some of those cheap little spa things, you know the foot scrub and peel off masque or whatnot, take a bath, and laze around in your robe watching crap tv with a thick blue clay mask on your face, gee, guess what I do when Im down?

I agree with puppy, this is maybe one of the most unified fronts that we have presented on this board. This is HIS fault, and just like a teenage boy (which is what the WAS's always seem to become) hes going to try to make it your fault.

Well, let me ask you this: if in 11 years your son, IDK, gets bad grades on his report card, and you wont let him have the car keys, is it your fault if he sneaks out? No matter how much he tried to convince you it was, you would know, absolutely unequivocally know, that he was wrong and in his passionate fit throwing was hurling blame at you, instead of being accountable for what he had done.

So, next time your H sticks his little lip out and pouts because you never let him hang out with homewrecking crazy polish skanks! just remember to not let his poor actions influence what you know is the right thing to do.


I guess I gave the wrong finger to the wrong man...