Thanks Puppy for answering. I have been into this dilema for almost a year. My wife did cut all communications with the OM. We are posetively going to a full recovery and I hope in a short period of time we can live our lives 100% as we were before. I don't want to screwed it. We just came back from a wonderfull 1 month family vacation overseas. However I still feel like this OMW need to know the true, but believe me I don't seem I want to expose our address and names. I could include an email address so she could feedback me any question regarding my discovery. I don't know.
Me:52 W:50 M:30 D:19S:27 Discovered EA:08/08 denied W insisted on D+ILYBNILWY:08/08 Exposed wrong OMW:10/08 Found exact OM's ID 2/09 Expose OMW son, not sure OMW knows yet 25 months after still a rollercoaster