So i drove by w's place to look at car.Was going to work on it today.Then it struck me.Why am I doing this?Now I know she just wanted me to do it to save some money.Also now hearing about relationship with om has put in a different mood.Why should I save her money!On the flip side we talk here about trying to build up friendships with our WAS's.So by me telling her forget it,is that going to push us farther apart or maybe show her that I can still be a friend?I don't want to be taken for a fool either by her cause this is definitely cake eating right now.Are we showing we are the stronger one by doing the favor and not expecting anything in return?
