Running out of gas

[WCW]

Hi mountain! been reading a little on your thread. So sorry you got served, and the way Her set it up was pretty sucky.

Along with your thoughts to 'take the high road' how about try a 180 and send Her a post anniversary card? Maybe even something humorous and signed with 'thanks for the years'. How did you handle this last year?

In the years I've been living thru MLCH land I always made some acknowledgement of our Anniversary. One year it was just to mention the well wishes we had received via txt or email. Not for him, not because of him, but for ME. H had control of so much and excluded me so much, but I would NOT let him control the fact that I wanted to acknowledge what was once important. There's my own version of control. Ha!

BTW, I bounced around different forums before I ended up in the MLC forum.