Thanks for dropping by Julia. Yes, I think it is an awesome offer that my parents made. They have been really great supports for me. I am going to make the best of this second chance!
Have fun with your sweaty yoga!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Hey Julia! Yes, we are seriously drowning in rain.. its ridiculous. I have to drive nearly an hour and back to work most days in lashing rain, the sort where the windscreen wipers are nearly useless.. and yet, cars pass you all the time doing 80+, people drive like maniacs in Cornwall!!
Are you worried about catching swine flu living in London?? I am. A woman in my office thinks she has it, so she is off. Yes, I am really enjoying working for a charity, but I may have to leave next week for a better paid temp job instead, oh dear! I'm too poor to have principles/morals
I am sorry you feel a bit negative, maybe you need to work on that detachment a bit more. Its his loss you know, really.
Al xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
This whole swine flu thing is being blown out of proportion! Do you know how many people die of various strains of flu every year? Thousands! Yes, this one is mutating as it's passed which is making it very resistant, but the media has run WILD with it.
I live in Atlanta, home of the CDC, they keep coming out and saying to just let it go, it's no worse than any other flu really and is not an epidemic or pandemic but the media just loves gloom and doom stories.
They'll spread any panic just to get the focus off of the horrible economy won't they?
And how was your yoga class Julia? Stress all sweated out?
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Nah, I'm not worried about swine flu, if I get it, I get it. Although, saying that, there was some dude on my bus last night sneezing and not covering his mouth - I got the brunt of it on the back of my neck so I went home and scrubbed!! So gross!
I feel a lot better today. My best friend is coming round tonight to see my new pad and we are going out for a meal. I know I keep saying it but I am so LOVING living in London. This will be my first weekend at home in my new cottage. I can't wait.
Thanks for dropping by on my post. I’ve replied to your questions there.
You sound like you’re getting the detachment thing sorted. I’m struggling with that my head’s in the right place but my heart’s having trouble letting go. One question for you – would you consider a relationship again with your H? And if you would, you seem to becoming friends again, how do you plan to move on from friends? Or is all that a bit premature? Sorry loads of questions.
As for feeling negative it’s not surprising given that it’s your H birthday. Also I think that no matter what your sitch at any time of life people have an off day so who’s to say that you wouldn’t have felt like that regardless. Hopefully Bikram will have sorted you out and you’re feeling positive again.
And as for the rain it’s bad isn’t it – driving me mad and has had a bad effect on my mood. Off to the coast on the weekend probably quite a soggy experience.
(((Cas))) Thanks, I'm planning on having so much fun and trying to move on from the past 19 months.
(((Bonny))) Thanks for dropping by. There is actually some sunshine coming through my office window as I eat my lunch The rain certainly didn't help my mood. I hope you have a lovely time at the coast. I love going to the seaside.
I do think my negativity was down to it being my h's birthday. I hate feeling left out of his life and I guess things like that remind me that I am. Thank you for your encouragement though, it means a lot .
I truly understand your feelings. The fact that my heart won't seem to let go is a point of constant wrangling within myself. It is only when I let that go and accept that I feel that way at the moment and it is ok, that I get peace.
My hearts desire is still my husband, so I would like us to at least attempt a shot at reconcilliation. A chance is all I want. Things move slower than I would like but we are making slow and steady progress. At least he is speaking to me now! lol! He didn't really for a long time as he felt too much shame and guilt. I am thinking about how to move on from friendship at the moment. I think now we have all our 'business' stuff with money and house out of the way we can start having fun together.
- I plan to get him involved and ask his advice on my work projects. - Always look hot whenever I see him - Be encouraging and suppostive of his new job - try and go on some fun outings that he'd appreciate. Friday night lates at the British Transport Museum. Possibly a prom. - Start to flirt.
My aim is for him to want, and make room in his life, for spending time with me.
My hearts desire is still my husband, so I would like us to at least attempt a shot at reconcilliation. A chance is all I want. Things move slower than I would like but we are making slow and steady progress. At least he is speaking to me now! lol! He didn't really for a long time as he felt too much shame and guilt. I am thinking about how to move on from friendship at the moment.....
My aim is for him to want, and make room in his life, for spending time with me.
We definitely have a lot in common (except that you're a young chick and I'm an old one!!). You very eloquently summed up your thoughts here. Like you, I'm not really sure how you move from friendship. H is moving house soon and he has indicated that I will be welcome to his new house. I hope he will just invite me. He thinks moving is part of his 'chance to start afresh'. He has a new job in the pipeworks and now a new house. Does starting afresh mean goodbye to OW?
Supposed to be done at 5:30p. Never leave until close to 7pm. YUCK!
