Although the handle is Elvish, I would say in disposition I am more like one of the Rohirrim, so I will add "wes thu hal"!
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed