My guess is that, considering where the purchases are, she's buying new clothes and school supplies for the kids. School starts where she is in about three weeks.

I just wish she'd let me know. I can make sure there's enough in checking for her, but I'm afraid she's just not telling me anything.

And a fried who went through a divorce told me to not cut the checking off, because he did that, and they used it against him in the court (saying he abandoned his kids financially, left the wife high and dry without support, etc.) So, I think I'll just watch checking very carefully and perhaps ask my father for an advance on the next paycheck if I need to make a small deposit. He's pretty cool about that - one advantage of working for your father's summer business.


Me: 35
W: 31
D10, S7, S2, S11 months
M: 11 years
Tricked into separation.
In Last Resort.

My story:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1800530#Post180053